Most times, it is good to go all out and buy extravagant gifts for your partner, you can plan a trip or surprise them with some other romantic gesture but it can’t be the only thing a relationship requires to thrive on. You need to pay attention to little things in your relationship and the things that makes your partner smile, your partner should do things for you simply because you love them and not only for special occasions or hidden agenda. If you have found a partner who truly pays attention to you, then he or she is someone you can trust to always stand by your side, here are a list of simple act that means a lot in a relationship;
1. Writing love notes
Most people might say that this isn’t high school but putting a piece of paper by your partner’s side with a simple ” I love you” written on it is a sure way of putting a smile on your partner’s face. It’s easy, it’s free and you can leave it absolutely anywhere to surprise your significant other.
2. Sending a good morning text
Make your partner know that they are always the first thought on your mind as soon as you open your eyes. It will not only brighten up their day but their reply will surely brighten yours as well.
Both partners in a healthy relationship rely on each other for love, support and guidance, the best you can do for your partner in most situations is to sincerely listen to everything they have to say without a word and just allow them to let it all out.
4. Be reliable
In a healthy relationship, always let your words match with your actions because the best kind of partners are the ones that can count on each other without any worries. You know that your partner will always support you and protect you in situations where no one else can and you won’t be left wondering if they will stick to their promise or just ditch them at the last minute because you know that this one person in your life is reliable.
5. Doing that one thing they really want to do
There are activities that we have zero interest in but we do them anyway just because our partner really wants to do that thing. Remember to always keep a good attitude when doing what your partner loves and you do not have any interest in it.
6. Staying patient with your partner
Patience is the most important trait you need when you want to build a strong relationship with someone. Patience helps partners to understand the difference on their personalities and it also helps them to adjust. It also helps a couple to have productive conversations rather than pointless arguments.
7. Staying honest
Honesty is a quality that everyone expects from each other, you cannot live up to everyone’s expectation but you can display your good qualities to that one person in your life. Being honest with your partner will show them that you respect them. Ensure that your partner is assured of the fact that no matter what the situation, you will always give them a straight answer.
8. Being thoughtful
If you really want your relationship to work, learn each other’s likes and dislikes, support each other during all hard time and encourage each other during the good times. We should not overlook the significance of staying thoughtful in a relationship because it will help you love and connect more deeply with the people around you.
9. Making your partner feel safe
When it comes to safety, it does not only imply on the physical alone but also emotionally, your partner should feel safe in confiding their deepest secrets to you. Your partner should feel safe in expressing themselves and opening up to you about anything that comes to their mind without any fear of judgment.
10. Always having the will to compromise
Both partners cannot just love every single thing about each other, if you actually care about your partner and their happiness, you will always be willing to experience the things they enjoy and they will do the same for you. None of you will be able to fulfill each others needs and wants if you cannot compromise and none of you will be able to keep the other partner satisfied
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